I'll be there for you
It's friendships day. And my mind can only think of rare people in my life.
I am not a family person, I've never been one. I am since birth a peer person. Always putting friends on prior places. I have learned more from them than my parents and not in a good way. I was a submissive one in my early friendship stages. It took time to come to a level where I stopped taking orders. I have had constants that became distant. I call them lessons now. Best mistakes I made while hitting puberty.
But like every heated bond in chemistry, our electrons lost the charge and my atoms got evaporated in the air (or something like that I am weak in chemistry).
Then came the others and more others. Did I find amazing friends among them? The hell I did! And in bonus, I got some exceptional stories.
I found people who are one of their kind and who acknowledged me as one of them. It is like a very soft heavy quilt on a freezing night when you be sitting alone on cold sand. They were the people who gave me a hand whenever I get stuck in a bean bag chair. I mean if that isn't a friendship I don't know what is.
I am not a family person, I've never been one. I am since birth a peer person. Always putting friends on prior places. I have learned more from them than my parents and not in a good way. I was a submissive one in my early friendship stages. It took time to come to a level where I stopped taking orders. I have had constants that became distant. I call them lessons now. Best mistakes I made while hitting puberty.
Obviously an ingredient to my current presentation.
There was this girl I met who became my first and longest 'bff'. Very good looking and sharp. She taught me things that my mother can't know that I know. We were those best friends who did everything hand in hand, well most of the time. Its all kinds of things that makes one come closer to you and we had checked'em all from our list. The phrase that "if you aren't a little gay with your bestie then are you even besties?" was either made for us or we made it on our own.But like every heated bond in chemistry, our electrons lost the charge and my atoms got evaporated in the air (or something like that I am weak in chemistry).
Then came the others and more others. Did I find amazing friends among them? The hell I did! And in bonus, I got some exceptional stories.
I found people who are one of their kind and who acknowledged me as one of them. It is like a very soft heavy quilt on a freezing night when you be sitting alone on cold sand. They were the people who gave me a hand whenever I get stuck in a bean bag chair. I mean if that isn't a friendship I don't know what is.
Although sooner or later you should realise that best friends are a myth.
So yeah! It's friendships day. Hope you keep yourself away from toxic ones and stay hydrated. 
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